Thanks to Ascerblog for inspiring me to post the poem below. It appears in How to Build a Better Mousetrap: Recollections and Reflections of a Family Caregiver. Please click below to hear me read it.
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Things I’ll Never Tell You
I’ll never tell
you
you’re stupid
when you forget something or don’t understand.
I’ll never tell you you’re lazy
when you sit at the kitchen table in your
wheelchair
while I fix dinner, clean up.
I’ll never tell you you’re a baby
when I must do most things for you.
I’ll never tell you I don’t understand
why you can’t walk and do more for yourself
when I know the reason.
I’ll never tell you I hate you
or that I was a fool to marry you.
You can’t help being the way you are.
I’ll always love you–although the vow was
never spoken,
I’ll be with you for better or worse.
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Author Abbie
Johnson Taylor
How to Build a Better
Mousetrap:
Recollections and Reflections of a Family Caregiver
That’s Life: New and Selected Poems
My Ideal
Partner: How I
Met, Married, and Cared for the Man I Loved Despite
Debilitating Odds
Click
to hear an audio trailer.
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Abbie–What an important poem for caregivers! God bless you for being a hard-working, thoughtful, caring, understanding, and loving caregiver.
Best–Alice
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Thank you, Alice, I must admit it wasn’t easy, but it was worth it, and I have no regrets.
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You touched on so many things that a caregiver must face. But when you love the patient, you do what needs to be done and do it with love even though you are exhausted and frustrated. Good poem, Abbie.
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You’re absolutely right, Glenda. Thank you for your comment.
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Hi. You may visit ascerblog.xyx and continue writing. We miss your posts.
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